tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665895439957147060.post3834776631954579419..comments2023-07-02T10:29:00.403-04:00Comments on The Weight of My Shoulders: Fear.Vaiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13999948831776213389noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665895439957147060.post-27999149553557059562010-06-23T00:49:53.831-04:002010-06-23T00:49:53.831-04:00Of course they will love you and support you no ma...Of course they will love you and support you no matter what. But they want to see you happy, so when you're happier, they're happier- it's just natural. <br /><br />I used to have this fear all the time...but about men. I would always think- will I get more dates when I'm thinner? But I don't want to go out with a guy that only likes me when I'm thin! But then I learned something (as I've lost)...they are more attracted to you because YOU. ARE. MORE. CONFIDENT. You have just succeeded at one of the hardest goals to accomplish. I mean, come on- if this were easy- everyone would've done it. Instead, people will pay thousands of dollars to take the easy way out. You will have so much more confidence in yourself, because you will look great, you will feel great, and you will know you can climb any mountain. And then people just naturally react to your newfound confidence. So they treat you kinder, happier, better. And you treat yourself that way as well. It's the best feeling in the world and you will work hard to keep it. <br /><br />Hope that helps!<br /><br />DDizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14097203800335179179noreply@blogger.com